Dating coach

Dating coach

The same pattern shows up with different people. We work on the pattern.

A dating coach for people who are back in it — after years off, after a divorce, or for the first time as an adult — and keep ending up in the same place with different people. It works for anyone dating, including men who want someone direct rather than generic advice from an app or a group chat. We talk about who you are actually choosing and why, what you say and do not say early on, reading interest honestly instead of hopefully, what you are optimising for underneath the stated list, and the pattern that shows up by the third date whether you planned it or not.

Sessions are one to one with the same coach every week, fifty-five minutes, by video anywhere in California or in person in Santa Cruz County. A single session is $130, or take a block of four ($495), eight ($935) or twelve ($1,325) — the longer the block, the less each session costs, down to $110. Veterans and first responders get 15% off. This sits inside our relationship coaching — the pattern that shows up in dating is usually the same one that shows up afterward, so we treat it as one piece of work, not two.

The method, applied here

This one lives mostly in two rooms.

Mental

Decisions, attention, standards.

How you operate under pressure, and the standards you are actually running to rather than the ones you would name.

Emotional

Noticing what you feel, and naming it accurately.

Disappointment and resentment look the same from outside and do not answer to the same decision.

All four rooms →

What it costs

An hour, one to one, the same coach every week.

Single session
$130
$130 a session
Pay as you go
4 sessions
$495
$124 a session · 5% off
About a month
8 sessions
$935
$117 a session · 10% off
About two months
12 sessions
$1325
$110 a session · 15% off
A full quarter

Veterans and first responders, 15% off everything.

Get in touch.

Call or text (510) 770-6169, email info@glrecoveryservices.com, or leave your details and we'll call you.

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In person in Santa Cruz County, at home across the Bay Area, and by video anywhere in California.